ive been having sex with my boyfriend for about a year. we have been dating for two & a half ..so i made him wait a while..but anyway.. i dont think ive ever orgasmed ..ever... i dont no why it feels good & all but he cant ever get me as excited as i need to be.. any ideas? please help kas i just dont even want to do it anymore since i dont get anything from it..i do it for him & it gets old....
Bucket answered Thursday May 24 2007, 2:50 pm: The only way I can orgasm is if I give myself clitoral stimulation while he's basically doing all the rest of the work. Try touching yourself when you're on top (this is a lot easier if he's got his hands on your hips and he's thrusting up instead of you doing the work). You can also try it in missionary position or doggy-style; those are the only ones that work for me.
If that doesn't work, try getting a vibrator or something like that. If you think he'll be weirded out by that, just go buy one and say that you thought it would be fun to try toys in bed, just to be more adventurous or whatever. [ Bucket's advice column | Ask Bucket A Question ]
RentFaNaTC answered Thursday May 24 2007, 2:41 pm: try some clitoral action
ive heard its pretty intense
or you could spice it up by doing it in different places or trying different positions
try some toys to or maybe oyu could use some ky heating?? hope i helped [ RentFaNaTC's advice column | Ask RentFaNaTC A Question ]
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