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--Things That Happened A While Ago That Gf's Parents Don't L
I've been with my gf for about a year and a half now and im currently 18. We met over a stupid myspace bulletin about a year and 7 months. During the relationship I lived about 20 miles from her house but while in school, I would go to auto mech. class which was about a mile from her house so i would basically walk there everyday. After being with each other like everyday and weekend we got into something a little not too good, shoplifting. We eventually got caught at JC Pennys one day after getting away with it for about 6 months in every store around here. Parents found out and were mad but we got through it and everything worked out ok. Then my gf and I split up for a short time and I started hanging out with my friend josh and we got in a little trouble. We broke into some old bungalows and took a bike and BB Gun as well as some other stupid things. This stuff all happened well over 6months ago but since weather has been good in NY now, the owners of the bungalows found out it was josh and me. So we both got arrested and both bailed out. Court dates has been put off for about 2months now which makes it about 7-8 months ago the broke in happened. Since the court dates has been put off I been doing very well for my senior year, got a job that i enjoy working at thats right down the road, getting along much better with my family, and have a way more positive outlook on everything. My question is that my gf's parents are making everything so damn difficult. One day they make remarks to her saying that they're really happy for me and glad im taking good steps instead of bad ones. Then next day when they don't want her using the car or something they punisher her with the lamest excuses and bring up things that happened with me that have no relation to the topic. They also, at times, talked bad about me and my whole family to make her feel bad and get upset. Im tired of her parents always bringing up things about me when she wants to see her friends or somethin and tired of them putting her down and talking low to me behind my back. Any ideas or suggestions would be good? :)
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I think your gf should just tell your parents. Or you could do something really bold, and talk to them youself. I would totally come out and just be like, "You know what? That was my PAST. I've changed, and I'm not like that anymore. So you don't have to put her down because of my mistakes. I'm not like that anymore, so drop it." If you're not willing to do that, then talk to your gf about it, she could stand up to the rents
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