I don't know what to think. My boyfriend broke up with his Ex-girlfriend a few weeks ago..but they are still friends and they are going to Germany for 3 weeks together in about a few days. They went out for a year and a half. The other night he dropped me off and went over to her house to hangout with her at like 11pm??I don't know what to think. DO you think he still has feelings for her. And he still wears the rings that they had together.[They symbolized promise to get married one day]??
Help please.
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? Siren_Cytherea answered Tuesday May 22 2007, 9:13 pm: A few weeks is WAY too short a time to really be over somebody. He's still wearing the ring, he's going over to her house at night to do...what?
I'm sure he still has feelings for her. If I were you, I'd confront him about it and ask him what's going on. 'Cause from here it looks like you're the rebound. If I were you, I wouldn't stand for it, and I'd tell him that. But, talk to him rationally and calmly and tell him what's going through your head. Make sure he knows that it's upsetting you that he still hangs out with his ex a lot, and that they're going to Germany together.
If he doesn't know, he's stupid. On the other hand, guys aren't always perceptive. He might think you're totally okay with it. If you're not, tell him.
Good luck!
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