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Jerry
I've liked this kid Jerry for about 4 and a half months now. When I first met him he was going out with someone named Della, but he broke up with her. Now, he goes out with my not-very-close friend Jessica.
Well, I can't describe how much I like this kid. It feels like love but I know it's not because love takes two people, and I'm only 13. He knows I like him, and last I heard he does like me, but I don't know if he still does. He said he liked me when him and Della were going out, according to a friend. It feels like love though, and I feel like crap, especially since i like him at such a high degree. I've never liked anyone as much as him. I feel like throwing up when i see him and when he walks into class i start to shake and blush. . i don't know what i'm going to do about the sumemr. everytime i even think about liking someone else i feel like i'm cheating on him, even though i'm not. i feel like tied down by him, and i like it. i'd give all the money i had to be his girlfriend, or do anything i could. i've been feeling so incomplete lately because I can't and won't ever have him.
I don't know what to do.
I've been feeling so bad lately.
I don't know how to stop it.
Please help.
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What you seem to be talking about is unrequited love.
This is, in fact, love. One person CAN be in love with another without the other loving them back.
You should tell him how you feel. I know he has a girlfriend, but you should still give it a shot. If people are meant to be together, they'll make it work no matter what interferes between them.
Jerry and Jessica may not stay together and you and Jerry may be meant for each other.
I hope this helps you. I don't know how to make you stop feeling a certain way about a person.
So, I guess i didnt' really answer your question but i wanted to say something.
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Hey relax, you're only 13. Believe it or not a lot of girls feel this way. I'm not going to tell you that you're too young to be in love, because I was that age, but you're too young to be sick over it just because he's dating. He does have a girlfriend & you need to respect that. What's wrong with being friends with him? Talk to him & get to know him. There's nothing wrong with that. Instead of wanting a boyfriend out of him right away, go for a friendship first. Even if you are friends, you can still talk to him. Try not feeling tied down because you aren't. You're right, two people are needed for a relationship. What's wrong with dating around? Nothing. You might even find a guy who you may love like him. You can't doubt it if you haven't tried. There are plenty of fish in the sea. Even though I dislike that quote, it's true, especially for a 13 year old. You don't need to go out & get a boyfriend to get over him, but it's ok to date around. If he knows how you feel, then there's nothing else you can do. If he doesn't, let him know. You don't want to miss out. He might need some reminding because guys aren't always good at picking that stuff out. Maybe he likes you too but doesn't think he has a chance with you. You never know with guys sometimes. You can't say you won't ever have him though. You can still try.
-hope that helped!♥
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