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I just can't forget him, I'm heartbroken
I fell in love. Plain and simple. He was everything I wanted in a boy. All the moments we shared, they won't seem to fade. Now he wants nothing to do with me, and he's treating me hatefully. He says, it's because if we become friends, he'll like me again, and he doesn't know if he wants that or not, so he has to be hateful. The pain is unbearable. I am on the edge of tears almost everyday. Please help me with what i should do, no one will listen to me, not my family or my friends, I feel so alone. I can't even go to him, because he's not the boy I used to know. I need a way to get rid of the pain. I can't live like this, I need an outlet. Please answer as best you can. Thank you very much.
Sincerely,
LovedthenLost
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Aw.
I know EXACTLY how you feel. I know how it is to look at someone EVERYDAY and know in your mind you will never be with them. It hurts, I know.
And I'm really sorry to tell you this, but there is absolutely nothing you can do about it.
I actually posted a question somewhat like this the other day about a boy that I was completely infatuated with. I wasn't exactly INLOVE with him but he made my heart skip a beat everytime he kissed me, everytime he walked by, everytime he looked at me. It was incredible. And then, all of a sudden he up and walked out of my life like it didn't even matter.
I know how it is.
And yeahh, it's hard, definitly.
But I learn to live with it.
I'm able to move on but yet, I'm still SO infatuated with this guy.
I guess my advice to you would be...
To talk to him about it?
Tell him that you love him and that you wanna be with him and he's all you think about and that he may not realize it, but he's hurting you.
And you can't sit there and take it.
Just talk to him.
It doesn't matter how you do it, but I prefer in person.
I mean, it's completely and totally up to you.
Forreal.
Tell him if he is afraid of being friends with you because he's afraid he'll like you again, he's not over you.
He still loves you, he just doesn't WANT to for some reason.
You both know in your hearts that you two should be together.
So why not do something about it?
Tell him straight up that you love him and that you guys were meant for each other and tell him how you feel, basicallyy what you just told me.
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And I'm extremely glad that you came to me for help.
And I will try and help you the best I can.
Love is tough. It's as simple as that.
And life is about heartbreaks.
You can't go through life without them.
I hope I helped you in any way, or even made you feel more reassuring.
I have AOL Instant Messanger. If you want to talk to me on that, my screen name is wtfkayluh1
I also have a myspace. The link is on my page.
And I absolutely LOVE updates.
So if you ever wanna tell me anything,
I'm here.
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I give you the best of luck.
Sincerely,
Kayla ♥
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