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my girlfriend always has bruises all over her arms, collar, bone ribs, chest and her face is sometimes black and blue like she just got punched. i always ask her about it but she just says its nothing and dont worry about it. i know her parents dont abuse her for a fact. but i dont know where shes getting these bruises from.and i dont want it to look like i abuse her. but she wont tell me where shes getting this bruises from. what should i do?
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If she's not getting these from her parents then could it be from school or perhaps 'friends' she hangs out with? You may need to try get her to open up a little to find out what's going on because it doesn't sound good.
Are the bruses there on a regular basis? Or has this only been on one occasion where you've noticed them? If they are regular then I'd have to ask are you TOTALLY certain it's not her parents?
I think the best you can do is just talk to her and express your concerns (like whoever it is may just go a little more over the top next time and cause some serious injury) and make sure she knows you're there for her to talk to when she's ready and that you don't want to seem like your forcing her but you are just very concerned. That really is all you can do I'm afriad at this point because forcing her to try to tell you may just end up pushing her away from you further and her clamming up on you completely.
If the abuse/bruises start to get a lot worse and you do start fearing the worst then it might be time to say to her you need to know what's going on because it's getting a little out of hand. But before then it may be better to try let her open up to you herself in her own time.
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