Ok, well recently I met this kid from another school. He's like best friends with my really good friend from that school. Anyway, we have a lot in common, he's easy to talk too, and not to mention the SWEETEST and nicest kid you'll ever meet. But hes not the cutest or most popular kid either. When I'm with him alone I like him a lot and I want to be with him. But when we're in a group I kind of think "Oh my God what am i thinking" and I want him to back off. I don't know whats wrong with me? At times I like him, other times I don't. I am a girl who bases a lot on looks, so I don't know if thats it or not. Please help...
Additional info, added Sunday May 20 2007, 12:02 am: Another thing, I also am sort of really concerned on what other people think. I know that shouldn't matter, and I try to not let it, but it still does. . Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? Teza answered Sunday May 20 2007, 12:19 am: I personally think that you're attitude is really shady and shallow. If you like this kid, you shouldn't care what other people think about you. If you care too much about what everyone around you thinks, you're going to get nowhere and it's not going to make you a better person. This guy seems like everything you want and so what if he isn't the cutest thing. You like him for who he is, that's all that matters. Don't be fake around him by being nice to him when he's by himself and then pushing him away when there are other around. That's not fair. If people do say anything about you, so what. You have to learn to get used to people being critical and judgemental and just grow with it.
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stephandjess answered Saturday May 19 2007, 11:59 pm: if you really like him his looks shouldnt bother you that much.. dont worry what he looks like hes sweet personality matters. your lucky to have him.. dont base everything on looks.. think about it what would you think if he based on looks and didnt think you were the prettyest girl.. itd hurt just like him for who he is on the inside not the outsdie [ stephandjess's advice column | Ask stephandjess A Question ]
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