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best friends crush
okay so theres this guy named luke that i wasnt friends with until a couple weeks ago.i reaaaaallllllly like him.he is madd hott,a really good dancer,and absolutly hilarious.he gives me piggyback rides and we fool around all the time.bit i have a few problems.one of my best friends likes him-and liked him before i did.there was a long story to go with it but basically she asked him out and he sed no,so no shes hurt.but he didnt mean to hurt her.but no he has a new gf,which brings me to my next problem.shes a stupid whore who broke my friends heart by cheating on him...and im pretty sure guys only date her because shes easy,well thats what they tell me.after they break up he would prolly go out with me but what about my friend?oh and theres a dance this friday that hes going to and its gonna be really dark with only glow sticks as light--corny but SOOO fun.i cant go tho cuz i have to go to my stupid sisters graduation even tho she never comes to anything of mine.and then theres one more dance which is only for the 8th graders (me).oh ya lukes in 7th grade.and has a really hot body-sorry i forgot to add that.so anyway,what do i do? i really wanna dance with him and go out with him but i have no opportunities to do so.please answer all questions.thanks <3.
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Well, if he said no to your friend it's understandable she might be hurt but if he does like you and wants to go out with you it'snot your fault he feels that way about you but IF it comes to that then you could always talk to your frend and see how she feels about it all and if she's okay with it but bare in mind one thing - ONLY ask her if you intend to actually act on what she says. If she says she's not okay with it and such then you go out with him anyway would there have been any point in asking her? Alternatively just say to her that what's happen and that you're going to say yes and how she feels about it and just try and be there for her. I think better she hears it from you anyway than someone else going around saying how you both are going out.
However, this brings me to another question for you, is this the kind of guy you really want to be dating? He's currently going out with someone who is easy so how do you know that's not why he would be dating you? How do you know that's not what he thinks of you? You seem very certain that he will break up with her so how do you know that he intends to even have a relationship with you and not just a passing phase where he will stay with you a while - just until another girl comes along who takes his interest. You may well end up being the girl he ditches for this new girl and next thing you'll know everyone will be saying how he only went out with you because you were easy. :/ Worth thinking about. You seem to have noticed what he's like physically on the outside but that's about it - there's more to a person that just looking hott and being able to dance.
As for opportiunity, since it's a dance for your grade and not his I'll assume he won't be there in which case if you want to go out with him and spend time with him and such than talk to him and arrange to go out sometime. I don't mean on a date since he already has a gf (but hey - if he's willing to go behind her back to try things on with you then at least you'll know he has no problems with cheating on his gf). She may be a stupid whore but one wrong turn doesn't deserve another (just becuase she cheated on him it doesn't mean he has to stoop down to her level and do it too because it makes him no better than her). Just talk to him and arrange to go out to the movies with a unch of friends or something and you'll be able to send time with him that way.
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