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Love/soulmates?
I have been with Sam for 4 years now. We are extremely happy together, have so much fun and have so many things in common. We are planning on getting married next year and I couldnt be happier.
Then there is my best friend Noah. Noah and I have been buds for years and he is friends with sam as well. Noah and I have always had a blast together , we finish each others sentences and just seem to click like weve known each other forever.
My question is, is it possible to be completely in love with one guy and see my best friend as my soul mate? Is it wrong to continue my friendship wth noah when I am in a long term committed relationship to Sam?
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We can have multiple "soul-mates" in life...those people we connect with deeply and profoundly without much effort. These people are precious to us, as they come in and out of our lives, and can be both male and female friends. You can see Noah as a brother and Sam as a lover and keep both in your heart. Marriage is a lifelong commitment and will require sacrifices on both your parts. Discuss all things that even remotely enter your head or heart as potential things that could hurt your marriage and talk about what marriage means to both of you. Do a lot of listening as well, because most people have very different expectations of one another and marriage. If you are both of the same mind and dreams, proceed and be happy.
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