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club fairy tale girl
hey I thought you would like a little update on my dancing guy.
well I got to see him last Saturday at the club and we were having lots of fun and everything. as it was time to go he was walking me to the car and I said, "One of these days you are going to have to come up to (my town) one time." hoping for anything like a "soon I will come up" or a maybe, even if it wasn’t true. But all I got was " no I don’t think so, it is so far away, and gas is too expensive." It kinda hurt my feelings. Like this was the only time we would see each other. I am feeling like i should not pursue this too much if I am the only one that wants to make a sacrifice for us to be together. am I wrong? Or do you think with what I said kinda scared him off, which shouldn’t be hard because we already live so far away from each other. I know I should talk to him about it but i am not sure how to bring it up in a way that wouldn’t cause to much heat and drama. Can you please help me with this predicament. I don’t want to end it but I don’t want to feel like I have to be the only one to make it work. In my experience it does not work like that. What should I do??
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Hey there! I'm really sorry i didn't get back to you sooner. =( Anyways, thanks so much for updating me. I'll try my best...
Ok, this is a little bit hard. Its kind of a tough situation to be in =(. First of all no girl would expect an answer of 'gas is too expensive' =( i think if a guy really cared about you they would try their best just to see you. Cost shouldn't matter. I don't think your wrong, i think your totally right. For a relationship to work, both of you should work together. Both of you have to make some sacrifices, not only you, cuase thats just not fair. If he truely cared, he would've made sacrifices too. You deserve way more, you deserve way better.
Don't lose hope just yet. To bring up the subject again, just be like 'Hey you should really come visit sometime! I can show you around and we'll spend the day together' if he says no again, then this is what I would do, just stay distant for a little bit i guess...:s i think he'll miss you and come to you..if he doesn't then honey =( i dont know about the way he feels ... Man i wanted the fairy tale to have a happy ending...but there isn't an ending just yet. Don't give up ok! =) I'm here for you if you need anything!!
I'm not sure if that helped...i really hope it did somehow! Anyways update me later ok, ill reply sooner i promise! im really sorry again! Anyways take care of yourself, talk to you later. Good luck, hope it works out! <3
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