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having sex for the first time


Question Posted Tuesday May 15 2007, 1:39 am

ok well how do you really know when your ready for sex? this is a dumb question i know but my bf has been trying to have sex with me for awhile now and i wnat to but im afraid. Is there a right age to have sex? wats a good age? im 15 and hes 16. i feel really bad for telling him no all the time he gets mad at me all the time for backing out. Im also scared that if i do it with him then he might want it all the time. DO you know anyone that wnats sex all the time like the same as wat im going through? DO you think thats true i mean i dont kno if your a virgin or not but if your not do you want sex all the time? im sorry this is soo long but i didnt want to ask everyone i just wanted to ask one person.

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Cux answered Wednesday June 20 2007, 10:16 pm:
In my opinion, you're ready for sex when you're married to someone you want to spend your life with. Not when you think someone's hot or when your boyfriend wants you to. But, this is your life, and you've got to make the decision on your own. However, if you are EVER feeling uneasy about it, don't even hesitate to say "no" to your boyfriend. Don't let him make you do anything you don't want to do. If he gets mad at you for saying no, he's a jerk , and I'm sad to say, he might just be going out with you to get sex. I'm not sure about that, because you didn't give any info about how long you've been dating, etc.
If you were to start having sex with him, that would probably tell him that its okay to have sex with you, so he, being a normal hormonal teenager, will probably want it all the time-which you might not want.

Remember- don't do anything you don't want to do.

--Jack
(15/m)

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