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how long do you have to give a guy a handjob before he cums or orgasms? i've given my boyfriend a handjob before, but it doesn't last very long because i don't really know how to do it.
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Like any guy he might just be self-concious, tense, nervous etc etc. if this is his first time ever or more importantly first time with you. In his head he's probably thinking I must do this, must climax etc. etc. or she'll think something's wrong with me or that she's inadequate.
The other thing is that guys don't always cum from masturbation (which this is)or for that matter fast and easily all the time. He could have been enjoying it and the message playing in his head about what he must do etc. got to him.
This is either something psychological going on with him and fears getting the better of him or you aren't stimulating him in a way he's used to and gets the most pleasure from.
If that's the problem it's his fault not yours. He needs to communicate with you about what he likes, whether to be rough or not etc etc. After all, he's the one with the penis you aren't.
How is a girl expected to know how to do this if she never has before? You need to tell him that you have never done this to a guy before him and need direction or it's not going to work.
You have to get him to show you what he likes and what to do or at least communicate to you as you attempt this what he likes and doesn't. Don't feel bad here as it's really his fault that things didn't work or lasted long enough.
Unless he communicates and guides you he has no business complaining or you have no business or reason to feel bad about it or yourself as you did the best you knew how to without him being clear on anything he wanted or him saying "Stop, that's wrong you ned to do X, Y or Z."
Talk to him and have him guide you through this and it will be fine. Honesty is key and the other thing is if you cannot talk about this with him you aren't truly ready/comfortable to do it again with him/anybody yet.
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well it actually all depends on how many times a guy has gotten a handjob. if hes had a lot usually it takes him longer to cum. if its his first time it usually doesnt take long at all so your bf prolly hasnt had very many before but if you keep giving him them he will eventually last longer. hope i helped
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