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MOM >:[
Hey. Well, I'm 13/f, and during the weeekdays, I live with my mom [my parents are divorced]. Now, don't get me wrong, my mom is NOT an alchaholic, becuase I've NEVER seen her like really drunk, in my entire life. But, she always drinks, like beer is pretty much the only thing she does drink. I've told her It bothers me, and she stops, for like 3 days to a week. Then she complains that she's 'poor'. She also smokes, a LOT, In the house, and it smells GROSS. Is their anything I can do?
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my mom is the same, she lowered her smoking, but she drinks beer all the time. what i always told her is im going to write my name on her ciggerattes(spelling) and if she smokes them, she doesnt love me, that made her lower it to like twice a week she'll smoke, try that?. maybe she'll be like my mom and lower it by you saying that, but if not, then do it!.. write your name with aheart, and she what happens(drinking, i really dontr know what to do sorry for that one)
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Im going through the excact same thing with my mom.My mom complains that shes a single parent and its too hard.It really bothers me when she does drink, like to the point where when i think about it , ill cry. One day i was so fed up with it than i just balled and told her how i felt and that i dont like her like that and she promised to stop. Unfortuntualy that didnt really last long. Just really talk to her about it. Show her it really upsets you, and if she doesnt have a drinking problem she will be able to stop. I know how hard it is.
My mom also smokes, i guess im just so used to the smell. But you can try spraying some air freshner around the house, and febreze on the furniture and before you go out make sure to put perfume on , so you dont smell like smoke. You wouldnt belive how many peple have asked me if i smoke.
good luck and if you ever want to talk about things dont be shy !:]
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Okay.. well if she is complaining she is poor, maybe you should show her some of the statistics of how much money she is actually spending on cigarrettes and alcohol. Plus, make sure you also show her the affects that the second hand smoke could cause you in your future.
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