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should i get mad?


Question Posted Monday May 7 2007, 8:19 pm

hi (:
im 13/f.
this kid i know that asked me out, i said no, started spreading rumors about me at school.
he told two girls that i kept trying to get him into bed and that i was a hoe.
and he told practically EVERYONE at school.
most people didnt believe it because they know me, but some did, and they spread it and well, you know middle school is.
so im a cristian, and i DEF. did not do any of this.
do you think that i should be the mature person and just blow it over. eventually making him look even more stupid.
or should i get mad and have my brother beat his acee. or my friend says i should spread a rumor about him?
hm. tough decision? i think so.
thanks so much in advance. (:


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TheWallflower answered Monday May 7 2007, 10:04 pm:
It's not a tough decision at all.

Be the better person, walk away and ignore him. Doing anything such as spreading a rumor about him will pretty much make you no better than he is.

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pinkers answered Monday May 7 2007, 9:48 pm:
i definitely wouldn't spread a rumor about him, because that would make you just as bad. You could talk to him and be like, i am glad i didn't go out with you, because you are so immature that you can't take no for an answer maturely. I would just wait and see what happens, because skewl will end soon and everyone will totally forget about the whole thing. and the people who actually know you know that you wouldn't do it, so it doesn't even matter that much. plus, people probably don't believe him it doesnt make any sense because if the rumor was true then you would have said yes to go out with him. Sooo i hope i helped <3

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DonutHolez567 answered Monday May 7 2007, 9:43 pm:
Dont spread a rumor about him. That just makes you as immature as he was. I would just wait for it to blow over and if people ask you about it just be mature and explain that it is not true.
Good Luck With Everything!
xx
Tory

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