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well i need some help, see me and this guy Kory have had this "thing" i guess you can call it since like November/December. and he would you know always flirt with me and sing to me and stuff, then one night i was on the computer and he imd me and was like um.. i have a question. and i was like yeah? and he goes would you ever makeout with me? and i was like well i dont know..[even though i totally knew i would] and.. he was SO obsessed with it. then he got all shy around me .. and stufff, and then on the computer he would tell me how much he liked me and stuff. and always call me baby,honey,sweetie,sexy,beautiful & ectt. but then people told me he still liked his ex girlfriend.. kristin and i was like wtf? .. cause he was telling me how much he would love to go out with me and stuff. and then.. one day he imd me and was like i always think about you im thinking about you now..and i was like kor, you know what just knock it off cause i was so mad..and he got real mad and was like whatever, you ruined the chances with the girl i love so thanks a lot? i was like i did what? wtf.. cause, HE started this whole thing with me and him..then he made me cry at the dance cause he said i ruined his life..then one day he finally apologized and told me he wanted me to relax around him and get to know eachother and he really did like me..and how he could agian and stufff. but he still liked kristin? and i dont get it honestly. and he goes like bipolar on me sometimes..and the other day i accidently brung up my ex boyfriend to him .. and for the past 6 days he hasn't even spoken to me..and we were just making progress!! and once before i had my ex in an awya message and kor flipped out and was like oh so whos jason? trying to get me jealous..you wanna play that game i was like what game? cause at that time he was going out with Kristin. and ughh.. i just dont know whats going on in this kids mind..he ALWAYS stares at me but he cant say like anything to my face he makes everything so awkward and i really do like him.. and i want him back, do you think he still thinks about me.. and do you think he ever liked me..and like what is going on with him? ahh i need help PLEASEE! [=
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This kid just sounds like he is very confused as well as having jealousy issues. The thing with a relationship is that you both need to trust each other and be able to talk things out if there's a problem. If he is going torun off crying everytime something goes wrong then you're setting yourself up for one very tough relationship.
It may even be that he hasn't totally gotten over his ex. I think what you need to do is talk to him when he decides to start talking to you again and sort things outonce and for all so you know where you stand. As well as sorting things out as far as his attitude goes too. As I said, if he's just going to get into a stress at every little thing that comes up and ignore you for days on end then the relationship won't get very far at all.
Sorry I can't really be much more help than this. I know he is probably young but he is acting very childish as well as having some issues he needs to sort out.
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