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okay this is hard
this is from"was this a sign?"
the thing is i'm a 20 yrs old women, and i realized i'm bisexual i didnt like the fact that i am. but i dont look at other women i always look at guys. but when she comes along i get gosse bumps. she is my best friend and i love her very much. i try to ask god why he seems okay with me for this cause he been showing me signs to dont let her go. i try to forget about her and ignor my feelings but she been flriting to me, and leaning on me. i tell my self its wrong to love some one that is the same sex as you, but people say its okay. so if god show me signs to dont let her go, does that mean he is okay with it? that the lord wants us to love someone no matter who it is? its so hard....
what do you think?
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Well, I have a friend like that. We've been BESTBESTBEST friends since 3rd grade. I COULD look at her like a partner, but I don't. I look at her like a sister. If you don't want to be bisexual, you don't have to be. It's all in your head. Very few people are REALLY like that (to where they HAVE to be..I honestly don't believe ANYONE has to be. Because in the Bible, God created ADAM and EVE.. so he obviously meant for men & women). Instead of looking for positive signs, look for negative ones. You're not 'with' her. Maybe that's you sign? Or anything else? Now you're saying that she's flirting. That could be all in your head, also. My friend is touchy-feely, but it's just the way she is. She's a nice and loving person. People might thing we are 'together.' (Doubt it..) But we're not. Your friend might just think that ya'll are good, close friends. If you don't look at anyone else but HER like this, it's probably just a phase that will pass. I don't know your history/background so it's kind of hard for me to help you and give my opinions.
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