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Friends/Guys.
I have a best friend, who has a boyfriend. And another best friend, who is just about to get one. Whenever we hang out with their guys, who are also really good friends, I always feel left out. Because they'll be flirting and laughing and kissing each other. And it makes me want a boyfriend even more badly than I already did. They do hang out with a lot a of other guys. But a couple of them like one of my friends. I don't know what to do. Whenever I hang out with them, I always feel like something is wrong with how I look or act, because I don't have a guy like they do.
Any advice on what to do?
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Theres nothing wrong with you. Just because you happen to not have a boyfriend like your best friends do does NOT mean there is anything wrong with you. Im sure your a great person. Don't be so hard on yourself- look at all the great qualities you have. Look at the ones you have and your friends don't, cause then you'll realize your just as good as em' ;). It boosts your confidence when you see things in you that no one else has.
I had the same problem with my 2 best friends- they both had boyfriends (who were each others best friends too) and all 5 of us would always hang out. One of my friends completely ignored me for her bf, but the other one and her bf kept me more included. But even when we'd watch a movie they would make out and i'd sit there doing nothing. I found out how to fix it.. I made whatever I did the center of the attention. I would make jokes or talk and they would all pay attention to me because of what I was doing. It wasn't as bad that way. But then when they were all together I'd feel really alone seeing how they had boyfriends and I didn't. My one best friend (who included me) would say that she hated leaving me out and felt bad that I was a 5th wheel. Maybe you should try telling one of your friends how you feel because Im sure they would understand and want to make you feel more comfortable. About feeling lonely- try and ignore it. You don't need a boyfriend to be happy, you know your surrounded by your best friends and people who love you. Try thinking of that and not being single. I really hope this helped!
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