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dear ammo
now im not taking any medicine that was my stupidness ...i took it for one day only i never done those kind of weird stufff...well i want your help... the reason we faught is just that last nite after he hit me he didn't talk to me ..we used to have little fights but next day we talk straight ...well ...this time its beeen more than 2 weeks ..im so much worried ..we live in same room in his house ...his family is weird and thats why i think im having this situation we can't do anything..im too bored and he dont talk ...we are not free in this house but he used to love me a lot ...now we dont talk at all ..frm yesterday i have decided to not to talk at all because he dont want me to so i dont want to make him more angry ...please suggest me im doing right or ?? it will effect my relation more...this 10th of may im leaving his house ...so what should i do till then i should stop talking or what ? well , its really hard for me ...im trying my best of the best ...he dont sleep whole nite its been so long he got sleeping problem he sleeps in day ...whole night he plays games and talk on vocie chat and i couldn't go sleep ..last nite it was very loud i couldn't do anything abt it so i cried and he stopped soon ..well i will do anything to get him back but don't know how cuz he don't talk to me at all ..so should i talk or not or what should i do please write to me as soon as you can because not i dont have to much days left to be with him in this house and ie without talking without looking his face ..its really hard for me ...thanks for your response ....waiting desperately for your help .....
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Hello.
Firstly, sorry it tooka while to reply. How come you had only taken the medicine for a day and not anymore? Was it prescribed to you by your doctor?
As for him keeping you up all night he might just be being inconsiderate or maybe doesn't even realise it's causing you problems to sleep. I'm not sure if at this point he is just taking some time to himself, waiting for you to 'come crawling back' or he really meant it when it's over. It seems he is acting like he just doesn't care and to be honest with you, and I know you don't want hear this, if this is the case you may just have to move on without him.
Where will you be going? You had said you've not many days left there with him so I'm guessing you will be moving out for a while? This might even be a good start - it will give you the chance to get away and have some time to yourself. And it will give him time to reflect on things when you aren't actually there anymore. It seems at this point there really isn't much you can do at all other than just wait and see what happens since the ball's in his court. You can try and ask him if he wants to talk before you go and see what he says but judging by how he has been acting thus far he may not want to but it's still worth a try. That way you can tell him how you feel about everything and see what happens.
Overall though at the moment I can't see much you can do other than wait - if he won't talk to you or listen to you then there's not much you can do other than get out of that environment. with no one talking to you that can't be good at all and with how you're limited on what you can do it would just feel like a prison. Getting out would be a good start. Start living your own life for a while and take a break. When he is ready he will let you know but if he doesn't then you've nowreason to wait around for him. At the end of the day you have a life as well and you should be allowed to live it without having to wait around for him for god knows how long till he decides to get over his 'not talking to you' phase.
If you need any more help feel free to write but Ihope things get sorted outsoon for you, I can see how you must be feeling very stressed out by everything going on. That alone is not good for you.
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