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i love him im for sure
okay so on april 20th right after school i met the boy of my dreams hes half porto rican (im not sure how you spell it sorry) and half black his name is carlose well he asked me out on friday and i told him yea.So i was on my way home from my friends house and her and my boyfriend were like talking for like 40 minutes because i had to do my homework well i called him and he hung up with her and she called me the next day and was like yeah he said he wants to marry me and have a baby with me and all this other shit.So the next day whick was on Sunday i confronted him on the phone and i said did you say that stuff to amanda and he said hell no babe i dont even like her.Well i didnt belive amanda whick is like my best friend i belived my boyfriend.This boy means everything to me for example im a virgin right and he actually respects that and hes gonna wait for me but i know he wouldnt say that stuff to amanda well on saturday carlose told me he loved me and i said i loved him too because this was true love and dont say im rushing or its too soon because its not so anyways when i went to school on monday i told everyone i was gonna fight amanda because she told all these boys i was single and im not and then she told everyone that im rudhing with some boy i dunno but then we got called to the deans office remind you that were only in the 8th grade and she brought me all this drama and im 15 years old i can take care of myself so i decided not to fight her and i decided to be a grown up and talk to her face to face in the deans office and now i guesse were bestfriends again.Well my family thinks im to young to have a boyfriend and no boy has ever called my house well i showed my grandma a picture of carlose and she said he was cute but i told her he was porto rican(sorry if i spelt it wrong) and half white not half black.Well she knows im like in love with him but if she found out i was dateing a boy that live a hour and a half away from me and im in middle school and hes in the 9th grade.She would not approve of that but next year hes going to the same high school as me and i wanna tell my mom we go out but ahh idk.......WHAT SHOULD I DO?????
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Anyways, the girl below me is wrong. Middle school may be drama, but it's nothing compared to the drama you're gonna experience in highschool.
You need to sit your friend down & ask her why she was spreading those rumors about you. She might be jealous that you have a boyfriend & she doesn't, she might have a crush on him, or she just might wanna break you up because she doesn't wanna share her best friend. Whatever her problem may be, you need to get to the bottom of it & find a way to fix it. Fighting each other won't fix things. It just makes them worse. Besides, you'll find that less drama throughout school makes you happier, so it's best to avoid it & not feed into it when someone starts shit with you.
Also, why didn't your grandmother approve of him? Was it because he was a year older & already a freshman? Whatever it may be, talk to her about it. I know she's your grandmother, but things aren't how they were back when she was young, and things have changed dramatically. If you like this boy, then you should be very open about the relationship. Let everyone know you're together so nobody tries to get with him, and so that people know you're taken & indeed NOT single. If your family thinks you're too young to date, then maybe hold off on relationships for a bit until they think you're old enough. Or you could be responsible & prove them wrong. Keep your grades up while dating him & prove that you can have a boyfriend & have good grades too. If you can do that, then they should allow you to have one.
And I doubt you're in love sweetie, you guys have only been together for less than a week. Love takes time to grow, it's not instant. I think you've just got a major crush.
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damnn i've had a problem like this before&&gurl i'm in 10thgrade. in middle school all it is is drama, rumors, love&&hearts breaking.
just like... ignore the rumors, listen to your boyfriend, not amanda. if he says he didn't say that than i would believe him&&you are deffinitally NOT to young to be feeling TRUE LOVE.
i felt true love in seventh grade&&i was uh-mazing&&it's a very good feeling. but like i was saying you should just be friend with your best friend again&&let it go&&maybe you'll get the truth out of her for really f he said that or not, maybe your boyfriend is lying to you? nahh i wouldn't worry about it. just try to stay with him as long as possible;; when your feeling true love you never want to let go so hun if he treats you right KEEP HIM !
even though she was wrong to spread all those rumors about you that she knew were not true then she really is not a good friend, but try to give her another chance, i mean think about it maybe shes jealous of you for having him, maybe shes making up lies to break you guys up so she can have him. i've had a situation like that before&&it was hell. but i got through it.
if you really trust your boyfriend, trust that he will always tell you the truth&&would never lie to you.
i hope my advice worked.
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--Ashley
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