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PLEASE PLEASE REPLY SOON!!! self-esteem.
i really hope you can help me.
well im 13/f and about 3 guys have liked me in my life. One goes to my new school. i thought that here (my first year) i would meet a guy and we would both like eachother and he would ask me out (no guy has asked me out before) and i somewhat got my wish. This guy evan at first i didnt even know his name and he would always talk to me and then he started to grow on me. we would stare at eachother, he would walk to class with me, help me with my things, flirt, ect and still does. SO i really thought wow this is it hes the first guy and i really wanted him to be my boyfriend. He's sweet and cute and smart. Now yesterday everything was going great untill he asked out a girl his guys convinced him to ask out because she liked him and she said yes. So i got mad at him and he tried to talk to me at the end of the day and i just told him leave me alone, i dont want to talk to you, dont bug me, ect. And all of a sudden i just feel so overwhelmed and i didnt know why. I called my mom and i asked if she could pick me up because i just didnt have the energy anymore and i just got so tired and i felt so stupid for actually believing that he liked me and how i wasterd all my time and i just cried and i didnt know why and i didnt know if it had to do something with Evan. I dont know if im ugly. People will come up and tell me, "O you are so beautiful" or your to cute. and im not a nerd i have tons of friends, im nice, im smart, i dont try to hard, im myself, im a fun person, party girl, maybe a little boy crazy but i just feel somthings wrong with me. dont know what. Most of my friends have had a guy ask them out before and they talk about it and i cant say anything. I really liked this guy and he just messed my feelings or somehting i wanted my first kiss too and he literally just breaks my heart. i know its wimpy to cry over a guy but out of all my crushes i really like him the most. its just something about him that makes him different. I have no reason to go to school because i just loved spending time with him. And yea we'll talk but (like today) but its just not the same.i cant do anything i used to do with him because everything i thought was a lie. i dont know what to tell myself. this is really starting to drive me crazy! You cant imagine how much i thought he liked me. Even some of my friends (recently) thought he liked me too. So what should i do?? I dont know. im 13/f. Thanks for your help.
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Alright, well first I don't think there is ANYTHING wrong wtih you from what you've described. You're only thirteen, and boys your age do stupid things. If he just asked her out because his friends told him to- well do you think that's going to last? I know it hurts, but just try to better yourself because of it. Don't give up, because that's what many girls do. Just because a boy doesn't ask you out doesn't mean there is something wrong with you, hey it doesn't even mean he doesn't like you. Guys that age are usually too afraid to ask out girls they actually like. and there is nothign wrong with not being asked out, I didn't get asked out truly until I was 16. And it wasn't even that great then. It seems like you truly want something special, and usually that only comes when you're NOT looking for it, so in the meantime don't give up just because of one guy- study in school, do things to better yourself. you have a LOT of time to find boys, and when they mature a little you'll see how much better it is. While you wait, jsut work on yourself, being with someone is only great when you love yourself too. I used to think that was cliche, but when I went out wtih my first boyfriend, I didn't have much self esteem so I could hardly manage to take care of another person too. Just take time for yourself, and see what happens. who knows, another great guy may come your way and ask you out, but trust me, you have a lot of time, and there is NOTHING wrong with you.
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