I am dating my ex-boyfriends brother and we really care for each other a lot. I havent seen or talked to my ex-boyfriend in 3 years and he has been married for alomost 2 years. It's not like I was wanting this to happen, but his brother and I had just met up after to years of not talking or seeing each other and we hit it off. My aunt greatly disapproves and i just wanted to know is it really that wrong?
bluebubbles23 answered Tuesday April 24 2007, 4:52 pm: Well it would be wrong if your ex still liked you but if he is married and living his own life it really isnt that bad! plus its been years since uve gone out so its not like it was weeks after you guys broke up!!! and the ex doesnt semed that fased by it soo my opinon is that it isnt wrong!!!! n in situations like these you hav to think bout urself!! you really like this boy soo
thats wats really important!!!!!!!!! hope i helped!!!!! [ bluebubbles23's advice column | Ask bluebubbles23 A Question ]
ALEXxHEARTSxYOU answered Tuesday April 24 2007, 2:20 pm: I don't think that this is wrong. The ex dude is already married, and there must be something in that gene pool that you like if you like his brother too :). I say that you see how it plays out, and if it works out then it does and if it doesn't then it doesnt! [ ALEXxHEARTSxYOU's advice column | Ask ALEXxHEARTSxYOU A Question ]
HereForYou answered Tuesday April 24 2007, 1:21 pm: Hey there! It depends why did you guys break up? But in general terms personally, i don't think it's that wrong because:
a) your ex-boyfriend has moved on by now...not only has it been 3 years but hes MARRIED for 2 years!
b) You're not intentionally hurting anyone by going out with his brother...i mean if your ex-boyfriend really minds then you guys need to straighten it out with him. You guys need to talk and see what's up with him...He might be hurt that his brother is going out with a woman that he went out with in the past...so you guys need to talk to him...
c) Plus you're saying you met his brother after 2 years! And you guys never planned this...it just happened...well no one can control their feelings...we cant help who we care for..
But i think that your ex-boyfriend would object..because you guys dated before...i think thats why your aunt disapproves!! btw how long did you guys date? Was it for a really long time and serious?
cutinda answered Tuesday April 24 2007, 1:15 pm: it's not wron. its how you two feel about each other and no one else. forget the others( not in a bad way), and think about how to keep your relationship standing, k? [ cutinda's advice column | Ask cutinda A Question ]
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