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scared to commit
Okay so theres this guy that i really like and he likes me back i hate to use the term "friends with benifits" but thats pretty much what we are. (we hug alot, kiss, and we'e madeout a few times). so every relationship ive been in i break up with the guy, and not really for a good reason i just kind of loose intrest, i guess i just like the chase..so i really like this guy and im scared that if i go out with him ill soon get sick of him and break things off..so im not sure what to do, if i should risk going out with him and end up breaking up with him or if i should just leave things like they are??
Also can i please have some advice for how not to get tierd of guys and maybe be able to commit top a longer realationship.
thanks :)
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I know how you feel! I've been dealing wit this problem for a pretty long time. "The Chase" is always been fun. That's when you're trying to get his interest and work to get the attention that you want. Once you have the guy.. what's there to do other than move on. right?? I know its a BAD habitt I'm trying to drop too. But there's nothing you nor I can do. Its just part of our personality. I came to realize that.. we'll will grow out of it. Plus its not that you don't want to commit. Maybe you just haven't found the right guy to keep your interest in a relationship.
I think you should give that guy a chance and start a relationship with him. Who knows. .. you might be able to commit to him. If you get bored.. then it wasn't meant to be. Plus you're still young. you have all the time in the world. you dont need to commit now.
To commit longer in a relationship, well you can't flirt. stay away from guys as much as possible. You should be only talk to your bf, and hang out wit your bf. so mainly N0 0THER GUyS!. Think of the things that attracted you to him. Learn to deal with his flaws. hmm.. that's pretty much it. The main ones.
But usually it doesn't work. its just part of your nature. You can't help it. You can't really force yourself. just go with the flow. don't plan too much or push yourself in a direction you don't want. you'll grow out of the "single&hookups" scene. Then when you're come to an age where you are ready to commit. You WILL! you're heart and feelings and especially you will know.
hope I helped. =D.
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