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my best friend
i like my best friend, you know as more than a friend. hes a great guy and al kind of weird but thats what i like about him. hah. anyways i used to like him before but then he didnt like me back. and he made it seem like he did. i dont know why he did that, becuause he was gay at the time. maybe he was trying to prove to himself that he wasnt really gay. so he and i just stayed friends. another girl started liking him and i let everyone know that i didnt anymore. so after about a week the whole getting over him thing wasnt working so there i was again back liking him. but no one knew and no one would knoe. its been about a month of this. then recently he told me that since the beggining of this year hes been confused about whether or not he is gay, but has finally realized that he is strait. im glad he told me all of this becuause it explains why he didnt want a gf and why he only saw me as a friend before.
he has no idea i still like him but everyone else is starting to catch on. he spends way too much time around me, according to all our friends. some of them are starting to get annoyed and jealous. for example if im standing in a group with my 3 other friends he will grab my arm and pull me away. and they seem to get annoyed by it not because they like him (only one of them does) but beccause he only wants to spend the most time with me. he totally ignores jen, my oter best friend. they used to be friends but somehow they got into an argument and now they dont talk anymore. and i feel weird having to choose between them all the time.
some of my other friends, not the girls who are annoyed at me, say that he likes me based on how hes always around me. he does a lot of playful flirting but he did that before too and it turned out he never really liked me. i just thought he did. so i mean i guess he might like me. but how am i to know for sure? i dont know if i should tell him. a lot of people would be mad if they found out i did. evrything points to him liking me back but i have trouble trusting my intuitions. i have to hear it from him. how might i do that. any ideas would work. thank you sooo much. i really appreciate it. sorry this was so long.
SAM 14/f
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Hey! Thanks for the question. I would just go up to him, and tell him again how you liked him before,and say that the feelings are back. If you be upfront to him, he will appreciate it much more because what if he likes you? He may be in the same position as you, and thinking that you dont like him. Just come out to him, also- take this quiz.
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