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20 Year Old Virgin! Im falling in love with a guy, and hes everything to me at the moment, I love him so much, but I have one ''problem'' , hes 19 almost 20 and hes a virgin, im not sure what he has and hasnt done, so whether hes a virgin to just sex, or a virgin to anything else I dont know.
He is EXTREMELY shy and is well known for not talking so it wouldnt suprise me if he had never even snogged, hes quiet even with me on my own in the car. But not over MSN. How should I go about ''breaking him in'' ? .. Much Thanks <3RM
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Lead by example, and I don't mean sexually. Just in the way you communicate. Be open. Discuss things that might make him, or both of you, a bit uncomfortable. He likely won’t feel so vulnerable if you put your neck on line first and share some personal sexual encounters or thoughts. Just go slow and try not to overwhelm him. Make it clear by your behavior that talking about sex and past experiences is okay, that you wont judge him and that you are genuinely interested in that part of his life.
Remember that asking a person what they think about 'blank' is more likely to get a response then asking them if they have ever done 'blank'. ]
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