My girlfriend and I have sex often. The thing is if i go a couple of weeks without sexual activity the next time im being fingered I bleed and if we continue the bleeding persists and gets worse. The thing is the blood is very similiar if not the same as the blood I experience while im on my period. However, if im fingered a couple times more the bleeding stops no matter how aggressive we get. So my question is why is my vagina reacting this way and how do I prevent it or make it stop.
And i've had sex with a guy twice before and the first time we had sex I did bleed but i'm sure he broke my hymen.
The first time you have something substantial in your vagina (like a penis, or your girlfriend's fingers), it's normal for there to be discomfort or spotting of blood. This can happen the first few times, while your vagina gets used to accomodating the new thing, be it fingers or whatever.
If you are having regular sex with your girlfriend which includes penetration of some sort, the bleeding should not be continuing. The only person who can really make sure everything is okay is your gyno.
I would suggest making an appointment just to check things out, as continued bleeding should not be happened. Likewise, it's not that your girlfriend is accidentally scratching you with her fingernails if the bleeding stops after a few times of being fingered, including when the sex is aggresive.
Chances are everything is okay, but as it's obviously causing you worry it is always best to get it checked out.
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