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Let me tell you
thanx for your advice it sounded so true.
anyways
let me tell you about myself, I'm a joker, down to earth, hot headed, know it all.
and when it comes to stuff like stepping up to someone and kiss them or hug for no reson that i cant do because i'm shy. i couldnt even do that with my ex Boyfriend.
well 2 weeks ago we did had a out to eat day, i wouldnt call it a date because we just went to a taco place ate outside, went to a book store and movies then went back at my place and watch anime shows. but at the same time we were waiting for a friend of ours to show up, (but he didnt)
i wanted to ask her my qeastion but i did not want to spoile our evening, so i let it slid.
i know i'm stupid but hey people tell me to wait for her to come up and say something.
so should i wait for her?
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I don't think you were stupid for not asking your question on that night. It obviously wasn't the right time.
I don't know that I would wait for her to come up to you. Like I said before, from what I gather, she is dropping hints to you. If you don't respond to her hints, she may get tired of waiting for you and move on. I'm not saying that will happen, but I'm saying it is a possibility.
Did you ever consider that even though you didn't feel comfortable hugging and kissing your ex boyfriend, you may feel differently hugging or kissing her? Of course, it's hard to get the nerve to do it the first time, but maybe after that you will feel at ease about it with her.
Still, I believe that you should come forward to her about your feelings. You can outright tell her, or gain the nerve to kiss her. Either way, she will quickly understand what you mean. I honestly think it is the best way of going about it.
As for going out, plan it so it is just the two of you. Even if it is hanging out at your place watching movies and eating take-out. As I said, it doesn't have to be a high dollar deal, just something quiet with an intimate atmosphere.
With an evening like that, you don't have to worry if your question (or if you choose to make a move) won't spoil your evening. It would be the right moment.
P.S. If you didn't see that I added an edit to my last answer: On the first question I answered, I told you to tell her how you feel and said you have a 50/50 chance. The second question you asked me, you told me about the way she talked and how she acted, and it made a completely new outlook on your situation. So I changed my prediction to a 90/10 chance of a positive response from her.
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