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stressing, skipping school, boys.
so, i've been EXTREMELY stressed out about.. well, just about everything. and i've been taking the easy way out.
i've been skipping school almost everyday for the past 2 weeks. its gotten so bad and its at the point where its like a habbit and i crave it. and i'm SOO behind in all of my classes and i know that i really need to straighten up and actually go to school and study and do well so i can get into a good college. and like everyday i tell myself 'okay i'm NOT skipping today' and i always end up skipping school. any ideas on how to break this habbit? and buckle down and get to work.
also, i really like this one guy. but i know i shouldn't.. i can't like him. it would just cause so much drama and its not like hes going to like me anyways- so how do i get over hiM?
thanks!<3
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for the school thing, that's a tough one. if it were me, i would just do what you did - tell myself that i'm not going to skip today, but if you're doing it anyways? that makes everything so much harder. i would talk to your teachers or your parents or someone and let them know all the work you've been missing and to make sure that you stick to your classes and your schedule.
also, i know you probably won't want to, but if you're really stressing about school this much and really are having trouble sticking to classes and everything, maybe cyber school would be a good suggestion for you. you'd be able to just be at home and then work on all your school work and get an education from your computer. that could also be another good option for you to think about. if none of this is working for you though, i would suggest going to your school counselor. they'd know what's best for you and for your education.
about the guy?
the best thing to do is just try as much as possible to forget about him. focus your mind on other things, like school for instance, the less you think about him and everything, the less you'll probably like him and pretty soon he'll just be another guy to you. just have fun and go out with your friends and pay attention to your school work and while you're out with your friends, go looking for other guys. if you're too busy paying attention to one guy and know it's never going to happen, you might miss a great future boyfriend somewhere out there.
i hope i helped.
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