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What i want, or what they want?
14/f
Over the past three years i've cared a lot more about my appearance than when i was in elementary school. I've always been skinny, naturally tan, and a pretty face. But lately i've been around guys a lot more, and i've heard and witnessed what they want in terms of girls.
While i've always tried to be skinny, the guys i'm close with are always checking out kind of chubby girls, thick girls, not necessarily with good feautures on their face.
And now i'm confused. Should i try and make myself look more like what i want to look like, or what guys seem to want me to look like? Because as much as i'd like not to change, i want boys to like me. Help?
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ok- just stick with the apparance the bast fits you. stay with who you are, and if the boys don't like your appearance, then ask them why they stare at fat girls all the time. do what you think is the better choice, i mean you've worked hard to keep your body in shape, so you should stick with that. the guys will get over that type of girl, and will like you again. don't worry. best wishes to you. :]
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DONT CHANGE. be who you are. honestly, do you want pervs looking at your big butt all day, or do you want a guy that likes you the way you are? dont worry about anything, guys go through stages all of the time and if you put on weight to make them like you, the next day they could be back to super skinny girls. find the guy that likes you the way you are, because he's the best. hope i helped :D
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well, as you get older (depending on your age) guys wil start liking or checking out girls who aren't that skinny. as guys get older they like girls with boobs and butss, girls who aren't stickly thin. but its all preference for the guys. but the guys I know and go to school with like girls with alittle fat. don't change yourself for them. guys don't like girls who change themselves for someone else. they want you to be real and yourself, not fake.
hope I helped & good luck !
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