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clingy
um. in like, all of my classes, i have all popular people. & yes. they exist. so please don't answer saying, "you are being a bitch. you shouldn't be so mean to your friend just cause she's not 'cool enough' for you." okay.
so, on the first day of school in sept., i walked into one of my classes & i realized. omg. it's ALL popular people. and i knew NO ONE. seriously. i was terrified. so i saw this girl. i had no idea who she was, but i said hi cause one of my other friends knows her. & she said hi. ok. big mistake.
she's been SO clingy. like seriously. everytime i see her, she is like having a spaz attack! she's like
"OMYGOSH" ALL the time. it's SO irritating! & all the popular people make fun of her. like cause she wears her hair up in a ponytail EVERYDAY. & she has the worst closet... it's not that she's ugly or she's fat or anything, but she's just really uncool. she hasn't hit puberty yet... & she doesnt like ANY guys or think ANYONE is hot! she's flat as a piece of paper, and hasn't had her period yet.
& she has no idea that she's uncool. like she knows it exists & everything, and we talk about people, but she just doesn't get that she can't come up to me SPAZZING everytime she sees me! well lately i've been trrrrying to keep my cool & not really talk to her like, 24/7 (she's in 5/8 of my classes). but still. she sees me and she comes up to me, throws her hands up, and goes, "OH MY GOSH" and i'm like oh my god why are you such a spaz.
ugh, & i have no other friends in any of my classes. SERIOUSLY! the popular people are pretty nice to me and everything, but they have their own friends & i couldn't ever ask them to be my partner. i have a few guyfriends, but again, there are four of them and they always pair up :/ so i am ALWAYS stuck with that girl!
should i just suck it up until june? should i give her a makeover? i just want to turn her into me, into what my friends are like, into what everyone else is like. everything from handwriting to AIM to dressing correctly, make-up, hair, grades, being organized, not carrying 3259923048239023098 binders around & actually being able to carry it with only your right arm... etc. but like how do i do all that without her knowing it? i've tried talking to her about it, but she's just like, "i dont care" & im like WELL I DO CAUSE YOU ARE ALWAYS ON ME LIKE WHITE ON RICE!
i'm really sorry this is so long, so just like tell me what you think if you bothered reading that whole thing... & even if you didn't, just give me some advice. lovee.
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You can't change her to be like you. Tell her shes bugging you a bit, and that is that. If your saying all this rude stuff about her, just tell her how it is so that you dont have to complain any more. She's her, and if you dont like it, its not her fault and you cant change that. These "popular" kids sound like assholes, and you shouldnt want to be one of them.
-Brina
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