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CHILDHOOD LOVE!!
well here is the promblem me and this boy have known eachother for like ever since we were born and we use to be ma cool and always hung out until one day i moved real far away and i kinda forgot about him, since he is such a family friend i heard more and more about him and then all of a sudden theses feelings for him like i fell in LOVE with him so i started talkin to him again and then he was acting or does actually like me so my cousin thats like his BFF tells me that he dows like me and so then i started talking to him but all he was talking about was doin it wit me and how it will takes us to another level but also he said we could never be because we live 8 hours away but i cant seem to get over him and i really want to so please he also seems to be on some games so PLEASE HELP ME OUT!!! im 14 female and hes 15 male
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Hi.
In a way he's pretty much made it clear that the distance will be a huge problem (commitment at so young an age can be very difficult because there are always distractions around - but then thatcan apply to any age).
From another guys perspective it sounds to me like all he is interested in is sex (not anything new considering his age). The taking you both to a new level sounds like a pathetic way to try and tempt you into agreeing and is like saying if we do this it will prove you want to be with me. Not quite that but the same kind of principle (in other words its a lot of bs).
I think all he's intersted in is sex and that's it. He's already made it clear that itwon't work because of the distance yet said it would take you both to a new level (which seems just a way to try make you think that it's for the good of you both when what he actally means it's just for his own good).
You will get over him but like all things it will just take time. I'm generally a good judge of people from knowing only small things about them and I think this is a guy you can do without. There's plenty guys out there and there is always someone better out there even when you think you can never find someone better.
Good luck in what you decide to do and if you need any more help just let me know.
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