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ok so i like this kid(kate)right and they like me back the thing is, is they also like another kid,(chad) and they always tell me dont worry about it we wont go out again(they are ex's) there is a small chance, and this chad likes kate too its really ahrd for the mt ogo out though cause they neevr talk at schoo lor anything only on the phone so they said they were gonna start talking more to become betetr friedns and then go out(its not happening though) anyways so kate told me "you know we are close dont worry about it and all this stuff im not gonna do that to you" and then all of her friends tell me how the only reaso nshe wont talk or do stuff with chad is becasue i like her, well the thing is. i dont want t obe hurt if she dosnt like me the nshe shouldn tleed me on, so i dont know to believe her or her friends who she says these things to grr pleasepleaseplease help?
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Hi.
I've hada similar thing happen to me recently and I've fond when you get different stories from everyone about what is going on it's time to go to the source to get answers.
You could try talking to her and tell her what you have heard from 'people' and tell her what you wrote above - that you don't want to get led on and to basicly ask her where you stand with her and such or you can just wait it out and see what happens.
Either way I know how much it sucks when you get hurt in things like these and every time you do get hurt it doesn't get any easier. Thing with relationships is that getting hurt (or at least the possibility of it) is all part of the territory. I'm afraid that will just be a risk you will have to take to get. Good luck though and I do hope it all goes well for you.
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