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I've bee dating this guy for a logn time now, almost a year and a half. And it seems I kind of have trust issues. I hate when he hangs out with other girls. I mean, things have happened in the past(he cheated on me), but that was so long ago. I think I may have issues all together, I mean with guys. Soemtime I even hate to hear that my exes have new girlfriends! it drives me nuts. what can i do? please help.
Tiff
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Well, as for your exes, there is nothing you can really do about them having new girlfriends, so the only thing you can do about that is to put them in your past where they likely belong.
As for your current boyfriend, all I can say is that you can't have a healthy relationship without trust and honesty.
Honestly? If it was more than 6 months ago and you can't put it behind you and completely forgive him, then you likely never will. By completely forgive, I mean you won't fret about him hanging out with other girls- he has regained your trust and you have shut the door on it.
If you can't completely forgive him, then, sadly, you are wasting your time and his. Your relationship cannot grow, because you still have that mistrust.
I can't tell you what to do. You have to decide if you will finally put it behind you and move on, or break it off with him and move on. Either way is, or can be painful, I know. Either you chance that he will hurt you by cheating again, or you deal with the hurt of the break up.
Only you know what is the best decision for you in this situation.
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