Elcee answered Thursday April 12 2007, 7:40 am: If it is done gently and sensitively, then the first time shouldn't hurt at all. It can be very pleasurable the first time as long as the person doing the fingering has clean hands, short nails and does not go hard and rough. [ Elcee's advice column | Ask Elcee A Question ]
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