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am i a whore?
Before my boyfriend now i made out with 4 guys...im 14 years old (female)and now have a boyfriend who after knowing eachtoher for 1 month and being together for 3 weeks we have done EVERYTHING people consider me a whore but i dont no if i am...i havnt done anyting with any other guy and im in love with my boyfrned so i thought it was okay but i dont want people to think bad of me....shoudl i stop doing stuff with my boyfriend or try and convince people their wrong?
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Well, 14 is a very young age to be having sex. You're not even fully developed yet, physically or emotionally. Sex can complicate a lot in your life.
And also, when you're young, you can mistake a lot of things for love. Lust or just extreme like you feel toward someone could make you feel like you're in love, but when you get older and actually fall in love, you may then realize that this was just you being young and liking a guy a lot.
Also, you've only known this guy for 1 month and only dating for 3 weeks! If you ask me, that's way too early in any relationship, especially at such a young age, to be having sex. Your age, the making out with the other guys, and the sex with someone you've known for such a short time could all contribute to people thinking you're easy.
However, I don't know you personally so I have no place to judge. Those are just things to think about.
If you want to continue having sex with your boyfriend, just don't tell anyone that you're having sex with him. It's a private act anyways, people don't need to know your business. The only way to prove those people that think you're a whore wrong is to SHOW them you're not. Just don't talk about having sex with your guy with other people and no one will have anything to talk about.
Before you go on having sex if you choose to, though, you should think about how this guy feels about YOU. Guys at any age just like sex a lot and sometimes that's all they want. He could also be one of the reasons this whore rumor is going around...maybe he's bragging to his friends about what he's done with you. His feelings for you could be real, but they just as possibly could not be. You should talk to him about your concerns and see what he has to say about it.
Good luck! And always use protection, and realize that even when you do, there are still a lot of STDs you can catch during sex with even the most "clean" person.
I hope I helped!
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