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ok so i have these friends that im really close too. two of them i have known since preschool. and then i had this guy that i had a crush on. but im not sure if it was really liking. then he asked me out and i said yes.so we went out. the first few days i was like really happy. but afterwards it got a little boring because all he wanted to do was kiss. and his mom absolutely hated me. but i still had a crush on him. then one day when everything changed for me came. i actually left the school with my boyfriend (normally we stay around the highschool) and so we went to the park. two of my friends was with us. he insisted on them coming. so they came. then like we were all hanging out. and then this one kid calls me on my cell and i didnt pick up then he kept calling so i finally picked up and im like what? and hes like are you going out with that kid? im like yeah why? and hes like are you with him? im like um yeah but im not near him. and hes like ohh. cool. i dont really like him. hes really wierd and freaky (he was punk) and then hes like do you know about how he was before he moved here? ( because he just moved here) and im like he was just a normal teenage boy. and hes like oh well have fun but i just want to let you know i really dont like him. im like ok. but like hes my best friend. then it went crazy from there. his mom randomly appeared. pulled over in the car and called me over. so i never met her before. this is the first time. and it wasnt a good first impression. she first yells a question at me like whats goin on here? and i didnt get what she was asking. so im like what do you mean? and shes like dont play stupid are you goin out or not? and all then like she went on and on and gave me the "talk" and then she said she had something but i wasnt really paying attention. then i started thinking about what my friend said like do you know what he was like before? and i didnt know. and his mom kept saying that her son was 15. but he told me he was 14. so i dont know. well anyways. well the whole night i was thinking about how my best friend the one who called me (a guy) and what he told me. which made me break up with my bf. and like he was the first person i told. and i normally wouldnt tell him like we just dont talk about this. and like he was all smiles. well anyways my ex never would talk to me and i would try to talk to him and stuff. and i would like go up to him in the classes we had and he would be like get away. but finally hes starting to talk to me again so were really good friends again. well he would sit with that guy and he told me that he likes me. but i just cant see how he does becuase he acts like he hates me. and im not the best person in our school. well anyways he still doesnt talk to me and stuff alot. but thats how it always was. but i dont know if i like him or not. and im really confused. like i do but i dont. liek im constantly thinking about him like if he likes me and all. and i admit he is cute. but hes a nerd. and never had a girlfriend and all. and my other friend liked him and there also bffs and hes liek i dont wanna ruin our friendship. but he did like her. and me. i dont know. im just so confused. so i dont think that he would ask me out. but his mom hates me. like she dispises me. but then she was all nice to me all fo a sudden and she kept saying on how pretty i was and stuff like that and she would tell my mom how wonderful i am. when she hates me. and also hes a mommas boy. and i dont know if i should give him a chance or not. and for some reason i find that around where i am that relationships in our school dont last that long. but long distance relationships do. and i had a long distance one. and i liked it alot better than when i was with the one at school. becuase then everyone knew. and i always had to be with him. but hten i also know that long distance is hard. but i dont know. i can never find a guy that likes me. im just soo confused. and i dont really know what im asking for. except for help.
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Wow. that was very confusing! so im assuming you broke up with the guy because of what your friend asked you and after what his mom said. well if oyu still like him, and he likes you then i would give it another try. and just because he's your boyfriend doesn't mean you have to only be with him all the time. everyone needd a little space from each other every once in a while.
He was probably acting like he "hated" you before because you hurt him and he was probably afraid to get hurt again. So if he "hated" you, you would stay away and his feelings wouldn't get hurt again.
As for his mom dispising you, don't worry about it. She sounds really... bitchy. It seems like she's acting like she's in high scool saying how she loves you and how wonderful you are, but really she hate you. That's pretty abnormal for a grown adult!
And as for your friend. He probobly doesn't want you to be with this guy because he likes you and doesn't want to lose you, and/or he's afraid you guys won't be as good of friends, because he probobly thinks you wont have time for him.
wow sry if tht was confusing but hope i helped =>
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