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teen problem. should i really like this guy?
I will try to make this breif. I am 14 years old and am a female. I liked this one guy who is 15. Recently I havn't seen him so I stopped thinking about him. Then I was hanging out with a younger guy friend who is 12. I was flirting and like leaning in close and he was putting his arm around me. I have been thinking about him alot lately. I just don't understand why I am so attracted to him. Plus he has a girlfriend, but he flirts right back. I don't want to date him though it would be too awkward. Why has he been on my mind lately? Also am I sending him the wrong message?
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Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life?
If you are not really into him as far as dating him then you are wasting both your time and his by encouraging the relationship beyond friendship. The fact that he has a girlfriend is not cool either. You are feeling a little rejected and lonely because your heart is really for the older guy. You enjoy the flirtations of the younger guy only because it boosts your ego to know that guys still find you attractive. Everyone wants to feel wanted and there is nothing wrong with that. However, I think it best to pull away from flirtations that are misleading. There are a hundred other guys within reach that are your age, not taken, and that would love to have you flirt with them instead. Don't miss out on living your life by nursing a sore heart with the approval of a guy whom you really are not interested in.
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