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2 guys!!!


Question Posted Saturday April 7 2007, 3:16 am

13/f
sooo theres this guy, who is younger than me and i think i really like him, and i think her likes me. but for some reason i just WONT let myself go out with him. for some reason i think i only want the satisfaction of knowing he likes me, and not my friends. i love talking to him, becasue we both love talking about our love lifes. hes real sweet but i just cant go ut with him. but the real problem is this other guy. were friends from camp, and we talk online, but not much else. he thinks im hot and i think he is. he used to like me, but i turned him down. but now i think i like him. we go to different schools so i dnt know how we could hang, and i KNOW he doesnt like me..but i really want him to. what should i do? im normally really good with this kind of stuff, but i dnt feel as confident this time? i dnt really know what exactly im asking but by reading this you should get it.. i need advice!


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BitsandPieces answered Saturday April 7 2007, 11:08 am:
Why are you confused by the attention of two different guys? I will explain why. In our society for the past bizillion years it is told to all females that we are to wait for our ONE true prince to come and rescue us. In the meantime, the boys are told to have fun with as many girls as possible before they become tied down to JUST ONE. See the difference? You have a guilty uneasy feeling even though you are not bound to either guy in any way. Women need to quit preventing themselves from having a full and fabulous social life and take a cue from the guys. Live your free love life to its full extent and keep it simple. Socialize and enjoy the company of any person who catches your interest and don't act like there is a ring on your finger until you actually put one there yourself. You are hot and you don't owe anyone anything...these guys are both enjoying your company, so enjoy theirs. The guys are also most likely enjoying other girl's company as well, so don't limit yourself.

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