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bestfriends Boyfriend
Okay so my best friend is dating this guy... We'll call him brayden. And she is always telling us to have sex and she doesn't care. I've even gone down on him in front ohf her and she laughed about it. Last night he stayed at my ouse cause his mom locked him out of his house. and we had sex. And we both enjoyed it.. ALOT. and we tried to tell my best friend and she didnt believe me cause we always joke about it. He wants to do it again. and to tell you the truth i want to also... What shouldd we do. She says its okay with her. and we have even like done things like a 3 some together but no actual intercourse until last nnight. Im 17/f.
should we continue having sex?
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well you should not be having sex at your age you are hurting your best friend that could end yall friendship she might have been ok with that on the outside but on the inside she might be hurting and is the boy ok with that???? he is going to end yall realationship and that boy might have HIV'S that can turn into aid's and all three of yall can die and thats really nasty what you are doing????????
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Honestly? No. She might say it's okay with her but she's either lying, deluding herself or is okay with it... for now. This kind of situation is really tough since all three parties are physically and emotionally involved. The guy is probably the only one who gets what he wants from it.
Everntually, you and your best friend are going to start resenting each other and competing for his attention.
I hate to say it, but you're the one who needs to give him up. She was with him first and I would recommend that she break up with him too but that's her decision.
Being a teenager means sexual experimenting; something that you'll have to do but it's better not to include your immediate friends in them because you might end up wrecking your relationship.
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