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My boyfriend Anton broke up with me on Valentine's Day and said that we were taking space from each other for the past four weeks I was under the impression we were still going out I called him on his cell-phone and find out his new-girlfriend was on the phone .I told him about it he claims that they are just friends then I started talking to him and we been talking over since now the funny thing is his Dad told me not to called on the phone but I called anyways I talk to his Grandmother and his mom and have not got my self yell out .He claims that I do not respect him and that their is drama and it is my fault and his bitch of a girlfriend says she is going to kick my ass because I am bothering her which is funny because I have only talk to her twice .She says move on he has then way does he still talk to me like a boyfriend does why do we gave advice when needed why do we flirt with each other .I think her problem is why is her boyfriend still talking to his ex .Plus everything that comes out of her mouth she says that she is going to and her step-brother does not help he yells at stupid stuff if I called Anton or text him he uses her cell-phone and says things like fuck you bitch and you are dumb just things that are mean plus he saids that he will kick my ass Anton girlfriend will kick my ass so my question is where is the drama coming from and what can each party do about it .I still care for him but he brought this on himself instead of working it out he is runaway from the problem
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I have a few questions for you: why are you even bothering with these people? Why would you have feelings for someone that basically ditched you and got another girlfriend that likes to threaten you? Why do you even let them call you names like "bitch" and "dumb?"
The drama is coming from everyone really.
Cause #1 - Anton broke up with you and gave you the impression that you were still going out, but then he got another girlfriend. He still leads you on, obviously, because you actually think you still have a chance with him.
Cause #2 - Anton's new girlfriend feels obligated to stick her nose in your's and Anton's business and threaten you because she's obviously insecure and fears he will go back to you.
Cause #3 - Even after all that, you still have feelings for Anton, so you keep trying to work things out with him, you keep taking insults from them, and you're convinced all this trouble is worth it.
Anton is immature for all the things he has done. You are immature for not realizing that this whole thing is a big waste of your time and energy. There are better guys out there. Why even bother with these people anymore? Just ignore them and MOVE ON WITH YOUR LIFE. You'll be less stressed, you won't have to worry about arguing with people, and you'll find that there truly are better people out there to hang out with.
I don't know how old you are, but judging by how horrible your grammar is in your question, I'm guessing you're pretty young. Maybe instead of wasting your time on Anton, you could take an english class and maybe meet a new guy there while at the same time learning how to actually use punctuation and write elligible sentences.
Forgive me if I misunderstood your question. It would have been a hell of a lot easier if I could actually understand half the things you said. You were probably hoping I would tell you "Oh he's mean and you're perfect you did nothing wrong you deserve better!" But you know what? Maybe you do deserve better, but you're just at much at fault as Anton. Once you can realize that, you can get more confidence and be a better person.
I wish you the best of luck.
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