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about my friend
"The worst thing any guy could tell you when you tell them how you feel is that they're gay, taken or that they don't like you back."
hey thanx. above is what you wrote. ok well its a very long story. first we were ok friends and i started liking him. i told him of this after maybe a week. he said he had commitment problems. so then their was this field trip. i thought it was the best day of my life. a lot happened that day he put his arm around me and flirted with me. he spent his whole day concentrating on me. but then on the monday after there was a big shocker. he found out that i thought he liked me and told me that it wasnt tru. and so after that we were just really good friends. he still always flirted with me which confused me a lot. finally one day i was crying about him and my friend josh called him and told him i was in tears. imediately my crush called and explained that it was all his fault and that he felt really bad about the whole thing. so i decided that i should get over him. and i did too. then a friend who hangs out with us started liking him. he doesnt like her, im sure about it. and when she asked me if i still liked him i told her that i didnt. i promised i didnt. anyone that asked i told them i didnt like him, even he found out that i didnt.
so after that we started becoming closer. hes my best guy friend. and so im not sure exactly when it happened but i started liking him again. but i didnt want to get hurt again like i did last time so i havent told him how i feel. everyone still thinks i dont like him.
ever since hes been really flirty and friendly. i guess it mite just be that we are both so comfortable around eachother. but he puts his arm around me and tells me he loves me in public. its not really made into a big deal because everyone knows we are just friends.
so all this time i knew something was up that he wasnt telling me about. until a few days ago when he told me that he WAS gay but is now convinced that he is strait. so that explains why he felt so bad about turning me down and why he flirted with me. he was trying to prove to himself and to others that he wasnt gay. no one knows about this excapt for me and another friend. but right after he told me that he wasnt gay he told me that he loves me soo much. i mean he always says it but now he says it more than usual. i mean he says it ALOT. and he could be flirting with other girls but he only flirts with me in front of other girls that like him. and so i have come to the conclusion that he likes me. but i am not sure entirely. i really trust him and he trusted me with his secret. so i think we are just bound to end up together. i mean the other day it seemed like he was about to kiss me. he didnt though cuz i pushed him it was a joke thing. but then i realized this could have been my first kiss and got mad at myself haha. and so i want to kiss him. i really do but i am not sure how to. it doent have to be a long kiss at all. it doesnt even have to be on the lips. its just to let him know i am interested. so wat is your take on all of this? im sorry i made you read this its really long i know. and thank you so much for listening to my problems. i know that even if i kiss him and he doesnt feel the same it wont mess up our friendship because it would have already so im not to worried about that. just please help. thanx ur an angel =)
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Haha, aww thank you. And don't worry about it being long. My answers can be long too, so it's nothing to be sorry for. =)
Anyways, I think he likes you. He flirts with you, puts his arm around you & tells you he loves you. He even went to kiss you until you pushed him away, haha. I would think he likes you a lot. As I said before, tell him how you feel. If he likes you, then you guys can go out. If he doesn't, it's not the end of the world. There's a lot of other amazing guys out there, and you'd be missing out just concentrating on one person.
Tell him how you feel, and see what happens. And try & hang out some more. And if he tries to kiss you, don't push him away. Let him kiss you, because then you know he definitely likes you, and then you can be with him. =) Good luck!
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