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i want to change what happened
~13/f~ im the kind of gothic rough girl and hes the kind of preppy nice guy.Im not sure how I like my friend bff or bf. Weve been really close friends for a long time then it started going to bffs. because I tell him more than my other bffs and he tells me a lot and were always there for each other. But then we flirt so much. people think or say were dating or should but were not. He knows I liked him I know he liked me but I have no idea now. I went to a paintball party. We both go paint balling a lot then at the party my team was my 5 bffs 3 of their bfs and him. we flirt so much that’s what im so confused about. He was showing off and when we separated he was looking for me and worried? hes just really to nice. Is that what it should be like. But now hes been wearin a lot of black and deppressed. Does that mean something. But then we do joke or do shoot each other on purpose. And my other bff and her bf broke up that night so I went with her. So he knew so he went to get him(the guy she broke up with). Then we went around me my bff(my ?bff or bf? As in him) and my other bff (she just broke up). he was talking to her about something ‘top secret’. later on she started truth or dare. I kept doing truths I was just to nervous. I knew it was a setup. He asked truth to me if id ever take a dare. Then my bff asked truth to me if I liked him then truth to him if he liked me we both said no. I regret it. Everyone already knew anyway but im just not sure if I like him bf or bff? And ive never kissed or been kissed. That’s what it was supposed to be…us kissing. I thought wed start taking it longer than just a ‘dare’ kiss like making out or something. I like him as a bf then bff then bf then bff I just am not sure whats wrong. Hes all I think and write about.
i really need help soon. we tell each other a lot of stuff and we both knew or thought before the party that we liked each other.
Do I like him as a boyfriend(bf) or best friend(bff). How do you think he likes me? What should we do? How do you kiss? How could i tell my mom?
How can I change what happened? What else should I do? i really lied i love him at times but then at times its just friends but mainly i love him but we both deny it when theres alot of people. is that love were too flirty.
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Dear Reader,
You can't change what's happened, you can only change the future.I think that you need to talk to him, and stop beating around the bushes. If he's starting to wear black, and starting to be depressed, he's probably trying to make himself seem more like gothic, so you'll notice it. You need to tell him the truth, I think he likes you but b/c you told your friend that you didnt like him, he didnt want to be the dork and be like, "yes i like her" cuz, that's just stupid. Kissingg... well, tilt your head to a side, close your eyes, and thats all i can say about that. And to tell your mom, just tell her. Be direct. there's nothing else that you can do. Most importantly, TALK TO HIM as soon as possible. Good luck with everything and let me know how things turn out. hope that helped!
Sincerly,
Lisa
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I honestly think you like him as boyfriend material. The things he does suggests he likes you, and I think he does. If you like him, and you know for sure he likes you back, then ask him out. I highly doubt he'll say no. For kissing, don't even worry about it. It comes super natural, and you'll have wondered why you worried in the first place. As for your mom, just tell her. If she loves you, she'll understand. Besides, your mom should want you to be happy, and if he makes you happy, then she'd want that for you. Just tell him how you feel & talk to your mom about it calmly.
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