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how do i become more outgoing?
14/f . i really want to be more outgoing with guys i meet for the first time. i'm pretty shy. and this isn't really good because i look like im 17 which gets me older guys who are more experienced and expect an experienced girl who is not shy. please help! please dont say wait as time goes on you'll be experienced. what can i do to stop awkward silences on the phone, or like idk please just help!
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Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life?
If you run out of natural conversation, don't force it. Just tell him that you'd love to hear from him or see him again soon and that you need to go. You do have a life, so don't be too available or too easy. A little challenge will only peak his interest anyway.
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When you talk to someone on the phone [and you have an awkward silence] ask them what they're doing. Ask them about their favorite types of music, or their favorite bands. Maybe ask them to hang out.
Just be yourself, and don't worry about being inexperienced because if you tell them they can guide you.
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