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losing my virginity


Question Posted Saturday March 31 2007, 7:18 pm

i dont know what to do i really like this guy. and he thinks im hott and he is only 14 and im 15 not much of a difference but i really want to have sex with him he tells me all the time that he wants to but im still a virgin and i dont wanna lose it that fast but im always sexually arroused somehow i always masturbate and i wanna kno what it is like but i dont know what to do im soooo confused someone help meh...?

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alisonmarie answered Tuesday April 17 2007, 10:08 am:
It's normal to be sexually aroused. It's normal to masturbate. This is what humans do, particularly in the teen years when hormones are raging.

Being aroused, though, doesn't translate into needing to have sex. You clearly say you don't want to lose your virginity so fast - so make a decision to not lose it. If you've got any reservations, that means you may regret your decision...and that it may not be as pleasureable as you expect.

Take some time to reflect over the ideal way you would like to lose your virginity. Do you want to be in a relationship? What sort of protection will you lose? Where do you want this to happen?

If you've got a clearer picture in your head of how you would like things to be, it may make it easier to decide whether you are ready at this point. You can only lose your virginity once, so make sure you do it when you are absolutely ready.

I wish you the best.

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