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i like a guy that doesnt like me
so, there is a guy in my class, and his name is Michael. i REALLY like him! he ism cute and REALLY funny and he is the nicest guy in the class. but i am sad because i know that he will probably neveer like me. i know this because i can tell he likes talisha (my friend). he alsways talks to her and hardly ever me. i dnt care that he talks to her, i just wish he would talk ot me sometimes. i talk to him alot and he talks to me bak but he wouldnt start a conversation. i only met him last here and he knows talisha from ages ago.
PLEAE ANSWER MY QUESTION:
how can i get him to like me more?
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If he won't start a conversation, why don't you? If you want to get what you want in life, sometimes you have to do it yourself.
Also, don't assume that he'll never like you, because you don't know him well enough yet! Focus on becoming friends with him before anything else. It really helps to get to know someone better before going into dating.
Go for open-ended questions. For instance, instead of asking, "Did you do anything this weekend?" ask "What did you do this weekend?" and take it from there.
You could also ask your friend to help you. Try to get into conversations with the both of them. See if your friend will talk about you to him.
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-Manders
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yes that is the trusth what a said but it is no big deal there are plenty more fish in the sea. Just don't speak to him anymore is what i would do maybe not be cold and nasty but not putting yourself out there either like you need someones validation or recognition. If he doesn't want to talk to you that is okay just let it go he is no better than you are and his recognition should not be the highlight of your day.
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The cold, hard fact is you can't make someone like you. If someone doesn't have feelings for you then you can't make them change their minds.
Imagine some wierd kid you think is gross really liking you. Would you go out with him out of sympathy? Nope, so it's the same way with Michael. I'm not saying your wierd and gross, I'm just setting an example for you.
I know this isnt' what you wanted to hear, but I think the best thing is to move on.
-Katie
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