Um, hi. Well, I'm Seth. I'm 14. I have a girlfriend named Alexis. But... my friend Zach came over, and we kind of messed around. We made out, gave eachother oral, and had anal sex. And we both kind of liked it. I still love my girlfriend so I think I might be bisexual. But I dont know what to tell her about Zach and I messing around. Should I tell her? Or should I break up with her and continue messing around with Zach? Or should I stop messing around with Zach and pretend like it never happened? I'M SO CONFUSED! PLEASE HELP!
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Sexual Health and Reproduction category? Maybe give some free advice about: General Sex Questions? advice_expert101 answered Tuesday April 3 2007, 5:03 pm: well i guess it really depends on like.. how you feel. like if you don't have feeling for Zach i suggest you stop playing around with him. and if you are bisexual, big deal! thats who you are and you cant stop it you know? you should mess around with zach especially if you have a girlfriend. how would she feel if she found out on her own? probably not so good. . . yeahh but its really up to how you feel. if you cant hold it in anymore then just tell her. and if she cant except the fact that you might be BIsEXUAL then she isnt really the best girlfriend. but if she gets upset with you for cheating on her, then you cant blame her. if you can deal with holding it in and you dont feel like telling her, then dont. but then just stop messing around with zach. but if you feel guilty and cant hold it in, tell her. and like i said before, you cant blame her if she gets mad at you for cheating on her, and she might be upset about how you messed around with a guy and or how you might be bisexaul.
you could just be curoius and stuff. it might not mean your bisexual.
hhope i helpedddd.
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