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Bleeding and throwing up while getting "fingered"


Question Posted Wednesday March 28 2007, 7:38 pm

14(almost 15) F

Hi, Im 14 going on 15 years old in about a month and a half. Today I was watching a show and it mentioned Gonorrhea... I didnt really understand what it really ment till I went and looked it up. When I found out, I got woried. Im not 100% sure if I have it or not. You see, I had sex about a year ago with my ex bf... and well, having him as the 1st guy Ive done that with, it HURT like HELL! AHH. But the pain went away. My cherry poped, and well... now Im with a girl for 8 months. Latly shes been making me bleed when we 'fool around'... I dont know what to do. Im affraid to ask my mom to take me to see my doc. But im affraid if it could be something big. When I go to the bathroom it burns. One of Gonorrhea's symptoms are that. Just need HELP!! Please ='( Im affraid.


Also... another ?... when I 'finger' my gf.. she tends to throw up. She wont see her doc, though her mom said sure... what is wrong? Am I doing it?

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karenR answered Thursday March 29 2007, 3:30 am:
There should be no reason for your girlfriend to vomit because she is being fingered. She needs to see a doctor.

As for burning while urinating, that sounds like a urinary tract infection. You should probably see a doctor for medication. It is very common in females
so no worries about telling your mom.

Here are some symptoms, you don't have to have them all for it to be the problem. :)

Burning
The usual way for a urinary tract infection to announce itself is with a strong burning sensation (dysuria) during urination.

Frequency
Typically, people who have a urinary tract infection find that they want to urinate more often than usual, but only a small amount of urine comes out each time. Health care professionals call this frequent need to urinate "frequency."

Urgency
Besides wanting to urinate often, people may feel each time the strong need to urinate immediately. That need is called "urgency."

Pain and muscle spasms
Some women who have urinary tract infections do not feel a burning sensation when they urinate. Instead, they feel pain and muscle spasms in the genital region either while they are urinating or immediately afterward.

Pressure over the pubic bone
Almost every woman who has a urinary tract infection feels pressure or discomfort in the up-and-down center (midline) of the abdomen just above the pubic bone. Pain or pressure in that place is called suprapubic pain or pressure.

Back pain
Back pain during a urinary tract infection is an important clue to tell the health care professional. That combination of symptoms can mean a kidney infection (pyelonephritis).

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