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Me, my friend and her boyfriend
Okay, so I like this guy. He's really cute, but I don't know if he likes me back. I'm deciding whether or not to ask him out myself or not. But that's not the problem. The problem is that I might like my best friend's boyfriend. They just started going out not too long ago, and I really don't want to ruin anything, but I might start to have a little something for her man. I'm trying really hard not to like him, but I always did like him a tad. Well, I did when I first met him. She's the first out of our group to get herself a man so it's sort of weird. I really don't want to like him, but I do want to be as happy and my friend and her man are, which is quite an understatement if you see them. I'm really jealous of her.
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so heres my advice:
go out with the guy you like thats single until your bff and her bf break up, and when shes single talk about the whole crush thing with her and ask if its ok if you ask him out. but make sure you ask after they break up.
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Jealousy can be a very dangerous thing. Are you sure you actually like her boyfriend or is it just a matter of you wanting what she has with her guy which you, at the moment, dont? At least you are not self deluded and you do realise you are jealous and admit you want what they have, that makes things easier (especially for me, hehe).
There's nothing wrong with wanting to be happy and having that special someone by your side who makes you feel really, really special like your friend has. I envy a lot of my friends who have the perfect relationship and hope that one day I can have the same too. However, you liking this guy will probably lead to nowhere if they are both very much into each other. All you will be doing is torturing yourself with something you can't have.
But, just because you can't have him it doesn't mean you can't be happy. There's a guy out there for you as well who can make you feel happy, it's just a matter of finding that guy. This other guy who you like for example may even be that guy - you never know. :]
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