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Losing my virginity
My boyfriend and I have tried having sex a couple of times now. Yet, it just hurts me so badly. Even putting one finger in hurts. I'm scared I'll never be able to have sex and I don't know what to do.
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Don't stress out about it. If it hurts to be fingered, that means you aren't wet enough to be having any sort of penetration. Explore yourself, and find things that gets you turned on. Once you discover what those things are, mention them to your boyfriend, and see if that helps. Being nervous is usually always a given for virgins having sex. I know it was for me. So the best thing to do, is just try to relax. The more relaxed you are, the easier having sex will be. Promise. If worst comes to worse, try using KY Jelly.
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