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boyfriend and pregnancy
Me and my boyfriend been dating for 2 years and im 16 i got pregnant and he started having phone sex with this girl and my baby is due any day now so what should i do
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First of all, you have to figure out if you want to keep this baby or not- if you CAN keep this baby or not. Since you`re due any day, i`m guessing your parents already now about it. You have a few options;
-fix things with the boy; talk to him
-get a job and keep the baby; it`ll be hard though.
*at this point, abortion is not an option*
^^ obviously
OR; when you have the baby [IN THE HOSPITAL; DON`T GIVE BIRTH BY YOURSELF] give it up for adoption >> this isn`t necessarily a bad thing; if you can`t care for this baby, someone who can WILL..
to me, it sounds like your boyfriend is just running away from the problem.
tell him to think about the baby and YOU. find out who the girl is and talk to the girl, too. POLITELY. don`t go crazy mad. just be calm.
everything is going to be okay, just decide what would be good for you.
in my opinion, you can give up the baby to maybe A COUPLE you know, or someone you KNOW will be a good home for the baby.
i`m really sorry for your situation, but you can TOTALLY work things out; don`t lose hope.
please, let me know what happens & thank you for asking me this question
Hope i helped
<3L.
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