omg so im sorry if this gets long but im mad.. im 16 f yesterday i went over to my boyfriends [17] house after i had been out doin some shoppin and stuff. his neighbor [14-15 male.. no job or anything] was over like always and i cant stand him honestly bc every time hes there hes always touchin my phone or keys and stuff and has broken them before. hes smokes pot and crap and has been suspended from school way too many times and has been accused of stealin money more than once [from his sister and my bf's mom even]. when i was over there, i had $40 in my wallet which was closed in my zipped purse on the coffee table like always. my boyfriend and i went upstairs for about 10 minutes while this kid was downstairs watchin tv. he then randomly comes up and tells us hes goin home to use the bathroom and change clothes [[wtf random much? it was like 6 at night]] and i didnt think anything of it.. btw he hates goin home and never wants to. my boyfriends mom was outside and there was no one else there. when i got home last night i looked in my wallet and every last dollar was gone, and i am dead positive it was in there. i know he took it bc one 1- he's stolen before 2- he ran home suddenly even when he claimed he was comin back he didnt and 3- there was no one else that could possibly take it. i called up my boyfriend at 1am this mornin because i was FURIOUS. he acted like he was really mad too sayin that hes gonna beat the s*** outta him if he took it and he wont be allowed over any more [he already doesnt like him bc hes annoying] and it really pisses him off that he stole from me.. and that he'd tell his mom this mornin and she'd go off the deep end and tell this kids mom and shed beat the crap outta him or else his dad [whos a cop]would and get it back. well i told my mom this mornin and shes apparently thinkin the whole situation is my fault for havin that much $ over there.. and when i got home and talked to my boyfriend he hadnt talked to this kid yet and said he told his mom and she said "she'd talk to his mom" and that was all.. my boyfriend said he might call him later and talk to him but he doesnt feel like yellin right now. OMG WHAT THE HELL? honestly why is it everyone else is taking this soo much lighter than me? am i making a big deal outta nothing?? i dont think so because he freakin STOLE from me! and idk what to do?? my boyfriends mom has a myspace should i message her or something because i am furious at this whole situation and you know he's going to deny it if he's asked did he take the money. uggg.. what do i do?
Additional info, added Monday March 26 2007, 5:35 pm: btw dont suggest my boyfriend stole it because he honestly was with me the whole time and if he wasnt then he was upstairs and i was downstairs where my purse was.. Want to answer more questions in the Miscellaneous category? Maybe give some free advice about: Random Weirdos? karenR answered Monday March 26 2007, 6:40 pm: I understand you being angry, I would be too. Fact of the matter is though you shouldn't have left it where he could get a hold of it. Especially since you knew he has been accused of stealing before.
That doesn't make it right by any means.
There really isn't much you can do. In the future refuse to go to the boyfriends if the neighbor is there. Doesn't sound like he himself is wanting to do anything to stir up trouble with the guy. If you really don't like someone you tell them to get lost.
Lets hope your boyfriends mom gets to the bottom of it. Like you said he will deny. Be more careful of your things in the future, especially if hes around. [ karenR's advice column | Ask karenR A Question ]
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